Anger Management: How To Stay Calm Instead Of Losing Your Cool

Have you ever found yourself angry with people you care about and didn’t seem able to stop yourself? Do people who love you tell you that you have anger management issues? Have you lost some important relationships or created problems for yourself at work because you couldn’t seem to control your angry behavior? If this describes you, then you need to regain control and stop yourself from hurting others. The first thing to do is to recognize that you are choosing your anger. What? Choosing my anger? Why in the world would I do that? Well, there are several reasons people may choose anger. Let’s see which one best describes you. Some people use anger to intimidate others and subsequently …

How To Activate Your Personal Success

What do I mean by Activating Your Personal Success? As I’ve outlined in my book Awaken the Genius each one of us possesses inherent skills, abilities and resources. Skills are obvious these are things that you do better than everyone else around you, or at least as well. Abilities could be physical or mental in nature. Some people have the ability to do math, others have the ability to do art, as examples. Resources are our inner ability to handle and manage situations. A resource would be the skill to be patient when outside influences seem to be slow or difficult. Another resource might be the ability to transform anger into flexibility. With hypnosis you learn how to cultivate these …

How To Activate Your Affluence

My belief is that we create our own destiny. The lives we have are the lives we have made for ourselves–good or bad. My students in MAXpersuasion are either living the good life or on their way to it because as we expand our universes we get exactly what we want out of life. I’ve been thinking about the concept of affluence lately–from principles to thoughts to action to the realization of it. If you really want to realize your dreams, and I assume you do, then installing an affluent mindset and affluent thought processes will help you on this path. These are strategies of the world’s wealthiest people. Why is Bill Gates wealthier than you? More than a mindset, …

How To Accelerate Your Personal Growth By Choosing What You Control

Do you know the difference between what you can control and what you can’t? Because if you don’t the stuff you can’t control will end up controlling you! In Stephen R Covey’s book “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People” he explains the difference between your “Circle of Influence” – the things that you CAN control and your “Circle of Concern” the things that affect you but you CAN’T control. In truth, as I’ve talked about in one of my previous articles “Are You In Control of Your Life” the only thing that you can truly control is yourself, your mind, control your choice of response to external inputs, and what you choose to do to persuade others to accept …

5 Tips On How To Build Self Confidence Today

There are very few people who could call themselves perfect and be right. Most of us need to build self confidence today, but the majority just either ignore the issues or concentrate on the negatives: stress, worry, jobs, money problems and relationship issues. Concentrating on these areas drains our self confidence rather than improving it. If you could improve your self confidence you could make more money, look and feel better physically, or just be more relaxed with other people. Below there are five simple techniques that have been proved to help build self confidence today. 1. Talk to yourself. It sounds crazy but it works. All of us have a running monologue constantly in our heads, whether we realize …

How to be a Responsible Coach

Assuming the Responsibilities that come with Being a Coach Who can forget the famous line of Peter Parker (Spiderman’s grandfath0065r)? He said, “With great power comes great responsibility.” Society expects Spiderman – a comic book, TV and movie superhero with extraordinary powers – to be responsible for saving his town and the world from the forces of Evil. And he never let us down. Despite the temptations of owning such powers, he uses his abilities only for the good of the people around him. Being a coach has similar parallels. They don’t have superhuman powers such as x-ray vision or flying through the air with magic “sticky ropes”. But great coaches can have real power through their abilities to help …

How to Reclaim Your Life’s Happiness by Demolishing the #1 Self-Esteem Killer

Extensive studies show that more than 85% of the population suffers from some degree of diminished self-worth, lacking self-esteem and insufficient confidence. For most of the people who lack a positive self-image, the future looks like a mere extension of their troubled past. Their expectation of what is to be is consistent with what has been — with a slight and predictable level of improvement. Because of their lacking self-esteem and confidence, most are resigned to a life that lacks the excitement and passion that characterizes the lives of those who feel worthy of tapping into the best things life has to offer. People who possess a positive self-image typically have an optimistic expectation of what is ahead of them …